Well, last year I lived in Moscow, Idaho...but that won't help you much.
But may I recommend the PBEM or Server MP games hosted by players like llamabeast? (
http://www.llamaserver.net/)
Dom3 is the only game I have ever played MP online, and it's a blast. Prepare to get your backside handed to you repeatedly and trash-talked to aplenty by some very smart people.
Just look around in the Multiplayer/AAR forum, games open pretty frequently. I also hear you can find games on the IRC channel, but IRC is still a gentle mystery to me.