Damn, that's a nasty case.
I agree with Renegade13. You have to glad to escape being sued. Such a thing is all too common these day.
I recently have acquired some ties to the Itailan bad guys... might I be of service?
No, I'm just kdding. My girlfriend happens to be Italian. Her grandfather was arrested for ties with the Maffia. He landed in jail, but they released him on medical grounds. He lived on another half year and died.
I hope better times will come for you my friend, this is not very educational for your kids and not very nice for you and your ex-wife. But be sure not to take matters in your own hands, that could end up very badly.
This also makes you wander why women always chose soo badly when they've suffered some kind of emotional jolt. It's very illustrative for their kind.
Oh, nothing was meant as an offence in this post (if something here comes across like and insult). I insult people all the time withhout a clear picture of what exactly offended them.
