Hi Tiger,
If you don't get a response for a game, try over at the Blitz wargaming club:
http://www.theblitz.org/message_boar...lay.php?fid=14
They have an excellent Steel Panthers area with plenty of players. They also have a mentoring system where they help new players to learn the ropes. Another good feature is their ladder which allows you to keep track of your results, and helps you to know the ability of your opponent.
Hope this helps.
Cheers,
Cross