Ugh!  Fyron and I tried desperatly to get it to work...but to no avail.  I must admit it is a little complicated.  I think the problem was that he had a firewall.
Would anyone without a firewall like to attempt to try a tcp/ip game with me...just send me an e-mail at 
capt-kwok@rogers.com.  I'm curious to see if that was the problem or not.
Thanks!