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		| FrankTrollman said:It isn't even "in-character" because it's a private message to the person outside the game. 
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 As an important aside, that claim is definitely unfair.  "In-game" messages take a full turn to get anywhere, and are therefore useless for in-game diplomacy.  PMs are the only viable option, unless email addresses have been publicized.
Generally, I think the "Royal We" and the content of one's signature tend to show quite clearly when a message is meant "in character."