OT: Advice....

[narf poit chez BOOM]

Not much experience there, but if you don't try, you'll probably woncer 'if' for a long time. Or so say people with more experience than me.

Side note: I've still got a crush on one of my sister's friends. I got it about ten years ago...And she's married now!

Man, these things stick around for a loooong time...She gave me my first stack of comic books. We had a few others, but those were mine.

[Instar]

go for it, you'll regret not finding out
but don't get dorky or whatever, don't approach situation heavy handed is what I mean
dont worry about rejection, you'll live and (hopefully) still have a friend

anyhow
like I said previously
love is crap

[Nodachi]

OK, the first thing I'll point out is that you seldom make gains without risk, the trick is to minimize your risk!

Seriously, since you don't want to mess up your friendship then you should take things slowly. Just hang with her as a friend to see if the chemistry is really there. If it is you'll know it.

The downside to going about it that way is that she may wind up thinking friendship is all you're interested in. That can lead to some painful situations for you.

Personally, I'd go ahead and tell her. Being up-front really is the best way to go.

Sometimes people ask for advice knowing what the responses will be, they just want to hear someone else say it. You already know the right answer, you just need to follow through and do it.

[tesco samoa]

Friends can be fun to go out on dates with.


Could be a really good time for both of you.
If it does not work out.
Well at least you were honest with yourself and your friend.