Baby dies while parents play World of Warcraft

[Cypheros]

It's a reality too many play them too often, and to rediculous levels in most cases.

Who determines what qualifies as "too often"? And what gives this person the right to do so? This is a subjective thing. For some people, twenty minutes is too long. For others, ten hours is just fine. My point is that there is nothing wrong with spending time on recreation--it only becomes wrong when it interferes with responsibility. So to your above statement, I would say you are partially wrong.

People also on average drive 10-20 K over the speed limit ALL THE TIME.

What makes this stupid? There are some who ARE CAPABLE of driving such speeds. There are some who aren't. Am I stupid because I do not conform to YOUR view of how I should drive? No--I have different abilities than you. Just because something is illegal doesn't mean it is NECESSARILY harmful to you. Laws are made to govern a LARGE group of people, and thus have to cater to the capability of the majority (from the perspective of the government). Therefore, if the majority is incapable of Driving 85 MPH on the interstate, then the speed limit will be lower. But that does NOT NECESSARILY mean that *I* am incapable of driving 85 MPH, or that it is unsafe for me to do so, only that it is unsafe for the major populace, from the P.O.V. of the govt.

The list of things we do to stupid levels is a very long one, and it is mostly because as a whole, we generally speaking are a species prone to stupid levels of excess in our activities.

I agree, but then that is our freedom of choice, and I wouldn't wish to remove that from anyone. Freedom of choice means we have the opportunity to choose good or bad (and other, non-moral choices, of course). If you remove this choice from someone, he/she ceases to be human. Yes, some people choose poorly. That is their right. Just as it is my right to seek justice when someone else's poor choice injures me in some way. THAT is why we have laws: to punish those who make choices that injure someone else.

{end tangent] (Sorry to seem to pick on you, but your post contained the points most directly that I wanted to emphasize.)

Now, as to the video game industry being targeted. If it was in the US, you KNOW they would be targeted. Michael Carneal walked into a High School in Paducah, Kentucky, shot and killed 5 or so classmates. The kid killed people. He is now in a minimum security psych-ward doing whatever he wants, while his parents, and the parents of the deceased SUED a major video game company (forget which one) and WON! Why? Because "violent video games MADE him kill people"!!!! NO, it didn't. Just like in this case, WoW DIDNT MAKE these parents leave their child alone for 5 hours. IT WAS THEIR CHOICE--THEY are responsible, not the video game manufacturer. Yet, because our society is too wussy to stand up like adults and take the blame for OUR OWN ACTIONS, we blame everything on everyone else. How do we sleep at night?

[Leslie]

The key to this story, is two adults are criminally negligent, regardless if babies die all the time whether a parent tries everything under the sun to prevent it from happening.

No, it wasn't the game, that's silly.

The game was just lucky to become the target.

The target of two people that never should have been allowed to become parents, at all, ever.

Is that me denying them basic human freedoms? Damn right.

What right do I have to do that?

Explain your question to the dead baby.

Oh wait, the baby is dead, can't be asked.

Given a choice, I tend to side with the real victim, rather than champion a good cause (rampant out of control freedom for the sake of it) when the recipient is a worthless waste of skin.

Re the driving laws example. I vote we remove all speeding limits. If you cause an accident that results in a fatality, as a result of your careless actions, we just give you the death sentence. Seems fair.
Remember, driving fast isn't entirely about YOUR being able to deal with driving fast, it's also about other users of the road dealing with you insistence on driving as fast as you like. They might not be able to deal with your excessive speed eh.

And that can be applied to other thought processes.

Sometimes the good of the many, is just that, about the good of the many. Even if it inconveniences the potential of some of the few.

[Uncle_Joe]

The thing I find disturbing is that in the US, you have to have a license to drive a car. In many cases, that means having to pass a course on the rules of the road and complete a written test. This is in addition to a 'behind the wheel' test. All of this is to drive a car.

What do you have to do to have a child? Nothing...nada...zip. If you want one, go for it. You dont have to display any competence to care for one and you dont really even have to display any means to afford one. All you have to do is want to have one.

To me, that is just crazy. Sure we have all kinds of laws and agencies that can go after negligent parents, but that all occurs AFTER the negligence. In cases like this (and many others), its too late.

I'm not sure what the solution would be, but I know I'd certainly like to see potential parents have to display SOME form of basic parenting skills...

[Leslie]

To extend Joe's thoughts.

When I got married, I had to endure several sessions on marriage. Likely had something to do with wanting a church ceremony I suppose.

The lessons were moronic plain and simple. But they were also not negotiable. They were not about being a useful spouse, they were all mumbo jumbo religious dogma. Still, they insisted I went to them, and answered all manner of carefully slanted questions.

Years later, and not one iota of that course aided in me in the slightest.

I am a parent, and I am a parent of a son, who yesterday was 11 actually.
I was never given any teaching by anyone, parents included, in the joys and pitfalls of being married. And by logical extension, of becoming a parent (largely unavoidable if you sleep with a woman long enough eh).

This seems to be a weird shortfall of society here specifically. I am sure their has to be at least SOME cultures or societies that make SOME effort to ensure their members have at least a clue about what's involved in parenthood.

But I can't think of any at the moment.

And how many children occur, simply because no one took the effort to teach people how NOT to become a parent eh.
I could go to some rather extreme comment lengths is that area, but won't.
But lets just say, avoiding parenthood requires more teachings, than birthcontrol pills for girls, and how to fit a condom for boys.

Our featured incompetent Korean parents of this thread, can't possibly be considered anything but incredibly stupid, where matters of child care and proper parenting our concerned.
I wonder what THEIR parents think of what happened?

If my son had let that event happen, and under similar conditions, well the scathing lecture would leave marks he would not be able to easily hide.

But, then again, I don't expect my son to ever be capable of behaving so grotesquely irresponsibly either.

As a parent, I actually give a damn.

Becoming a parent is easy. Being one takes work.