For me some values are more important than victory. Name a compensation and you will get it. I can give you my nation to play if you'd want. I don't evade consequences of bad moves [and storming your fort was one]. PM me if you prefer that way.
As much as I hate to bug Llamabeast again and again after all he's already done for us, I find it hard to go on without knowing the truth of it. An accusation of cheating is as bad as it can get for the fun of a game. And without fun...